I saw you make a statement on another poster's thread that I feel is a very bad decision on your part. You said you were going to stop detaching from her. It's your life and your M and if that's what you decide....fine, but don't go messing up Newcomers who come here trying to find answers and you start putting the detaching method down. Just b/c you don't have the courage to stick to it, don't make others feel that they are making a mistake. I mean the very day you make this huge decision....you go and tell that to a Newcomer! BTW, how's it working for ya?



It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!