I have seen evidence in what you're saying. She's had big but passing passions about a variety of things, at the moment it's narrowed down to her small business. She's said things like that too though, about the boys.
When we went to Hawaii, she wanted to try surfing, with a passion. I went with her, not because I was interested, but to do it with her. For that, I'm a "good sport". Not someone who shares adventures with her.
And I've been thinking about this work business. I don't think it's been as long and as bad to justify all this. Yes, I'm willing to take responsibilty for my part, sure. But we're talking months, maybe a year, and I haven't been gone, we've done lots of things together.
Well she saw the therapist today, who counciled against a long seperation and definitely against a in-home seperation. Figure it out and draw up the papers. Looks like she's bought it. I need to talk to her more about it.
Last time I had room and time to get my head around this. This time it's coming on like a freight train. This is all since Monday night.
