DC, glad to hear everything's going so well for you. You know I know your W has some mental issues, but I don't understand why her L does some of that stuff, throwing out accusations with no proof or evidence, not following the judge's orders instead of ordering his client to do that. Her L sounds wackier to me than anything... Karen
DC, glad to hear everything's going so well for you. You know I know your W has some mental issues, but I don't understand why her L does some of that stuff, throwing out accusations with no proof or evidence, not following the judge's orders instead of ordering his client to do that. Her L sounds wackier to me than anything... Karen
According to the book I read "Splitting: Protecting yourself when divorcing a borderline or narcissist" she has been acting textbook for a "negative advocate" attorney.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
You should be feeling pretty good today, considering!
Considering the circumstances I suppose. In the end I didn't want to be in this position... but here I am.
D1 was doing well this morning. She had a red bow in her hair that she pulled out. I put it in my hair and she smiled and snatched it out and tried putting it back in her hair. She got me to pick her up and leaned her head against my shoulder. She clung to me when the daycare worker came to take her, but she loosened up and did fine when she saw it was snack time.
Last night I had a crazy time with karaoke and Bud Light... singing such classics as "Redneck Woman" and other gender-inappropriate songs. I got several standing ovations for making an ass of myself.
I guess it helps, but I shouldn't make a habit of that because I woke up late this morning.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
I hope the AD help. I wished I would have gotten some to help me sleep back in those days.
Yeah I was knocked out last night. My IC was concerned because I've explained to her my feelings lately. I'm a very analytical and logical person - but there is that part of me that is burned out looking at the future. Whatever happens as a result of the D being final is not going to be the end of the problems I'm facing because W's problems are internal and will not be solved by the hammer of a gavel.
As well as things have been going legally, there is a part of me that isn't going to be emotionally available to anyone else for a while. I don't think that is fair to anyone else I may be with in the future for me to be locked down like I am.
I'm also seriously considering a vasectomy. That would probably be unfair if I met someone in the future who wanted kids... I just don't think I could handle this again.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
