Also I have a family member passing through town on Saturday. The court order on my visitation with my D says that I have her from 8am to 8pm on Saturdays. My W likes to do the visitation from 10 to 10(lets her and D sleep in.) Then she gives me crap about sticking to the rules and not letting my D stay overnight, but don't mind moving the hours around to suit her. He(my cousin) wont be in till later around 7 or 8 that Saturday evening, and is only in town till Sunday afternoon before continuing on to Florida. I want to be able to spend some time with him before he leaves... so I need to get her to do the 8 to 8, but I'm kinda torn because I don't want to make any requests right now, but then I thought of just telling her I had plans... maybe make some mystery, but I surely don't want any of this to backfire on me. Or should I just send a message simply stating see you at 8? Id rather she didn't keep it so close to the book, that's why I don't want to go that route, I'm kinda afraid shell think I'm trying to be a butt, and make her get up early, just to make a point. What would you do?
