ok, ok - update, I've calmed down although I have been going off on H for the past 3 days. I told him that I think we should wait to make any decisions until we get some of our finances in order. I also asked him to move back into the BR so we wouldn't have to explain that and then go & drop the D bomb on them later.
Like I said before, he's actually much more relaxed & nicer now, so I will try to use that to my advantage.
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!
