Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Proactively. I will check up on the room arrangements. Then will talk to W about appearance of us being in sep. bedrooms in front of the kids.
. I agree, buddy.

Gima, I was thinking about the whole "is she inviting me/is she not" from the other day and a good nugget from our MC came to mind. To help prevent mind-reading problems he suggested that whenever your spouse speaks,

"Assume good will."

FWIW...

Later,


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac