Proactively. I will check up on the room arrangements. Then will talk to W about appearance of us being in sep. bedrooms in front of the kids.
. I agree, buddy.
Gima, I was thinking about the whole "is she inviting me/is she not" from the other day and a good nugget from our MC came to mind. To help prevent mind-reading problems he suggested that whenever your spouse speaks,
"Assume good will."
FWIW...
Later,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac