First post - was a lurker, now need to talk

[Jayce]

Margali, since H & I have had several (understatement) conversations about his LD, we've covered his tactic of being tentative, indefinite, noncommittal. Gives me the impression he's either hoping I won't take him up on it, or in case I ignore him or turn him down it won't be an actual rejection. Or, as happens, he can say I didn't really mean it, I was just looking for a reaction. Or he's hoping I don't mean it??Aahhhhh. We've had at least 3 conversations about me being a sure thing. And how well I understand feeling rejected.

Although he'd never have dealt with it on his own, he does have concerns about his low D, he also is worried, maybe a bit scared about my state of mind. Responding with "how about now?" works. I'm sorry it didn't dawn on me sooner, but I didn't want him to feel I was doing the pressure-only want you for sex-thing. Tone of voice matters. Hot, funny, whatever. Just not like "well, put up or shut up" challenging.

Let me know how it works if you try it.
Jayce