I hope I'm going along this the right way w/GF as I'm completely crazy about her and am hoping to have her around for a long time.
I'm being very careful not to get mixed into her emotions over X and the only thing I'm doing is encouraging her to process whatever she needs to on that front. I'm also telling her I'm not in a hurry so I'll be as patient as she needs me to be as I'm here for her right now.
She's acknowledged that my being there for her means more to her "than I'll ever know" so that's got to be a good sign, right (along w/her still wanting to be kissed and held by me).
Anyway, I've been telling her that things will be turning for her soon and they appear to be moving in that direction. I've also been saying that August will be her month as July has been a really bad one for her. To that end, my plan is to send her flowers on Saturday (Aug. 1) and say something simple like: "Say good-bye to July and hello to YOUR month. Here's to a great August."
I know she loves flowers and I don't think that will come across as my being needy or pushy, but instead as supportive of her and a positive note to start the new month off with (however, female feedback is always appreciated and I haven't placed the order yet, so there is still time...).
