Hey Dia- Haven't decided yet on the letter. There's no rush on it....
Will update the sitch more later on, when I'm not at work!
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed