Sorry you are here. But this is a great place to be if you are in the situation you are in. Have you read Divorce Remedy? Are you doing anything to get a life? Stop all the begging, pleading, etc. That will only push her further away from you. You have to work on you now. Find things that make you happy. Do you have hobbies you enjoy? Friends you enjoy getting together with?
You have 2 sons. Focus on being a great dad to them. You are not alone and this is not the end. You have to change you before you can expect to see any change from her. This A will run its course. They usually always do but at different times. The best thing for you to do is be the better option for when it finishes. Keep the door home open and smooth. Make yourself a guy that any woman would be a fool to want to leave. Be confident in front of her when you do see her. Be cheerful. Do not let her see emotion. Act like you have your stuff together. Fake it til you make it. It won't be easy at first, but keep working at it and the more you do the more it will come naturally.
You have a great support system here. None of us want to be here. But we are all here. And marriage's do get saved on this sight in all kinds of conditions.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
