Ok...not sure whether this makes me happy or mad.....a little of both I think.

When I went home at lunch I told Marc to clean up his room and to get his bag packed to go to his dad's tomorrow. He said he isn't going to his dad's. Huh? When I asked him why he said, "Because there's nothing to do there anymore." If you'll remember they decided that they couldn't have her son and Marc there on the same weekend anymore because of 'the incident' so I've had Marc the last two weekends to get that in order. So, according to Marc there is nothing to do over there since her son isn't there. I guess spending time with his dad isn't anything to do.

It's not like there is much else to do at home, but it is home. His dad's place isn't even really his dad's...just a place that dad lives. Marc doesn't like it there but he goes usually. He said that Gabe told him he would come over and take him to lunch and fishing on Saturday.

See....I don't know whether to be glad because Gabe is seeing more ramifications from his lousy decisions or mad because that will take away the little time I had to be on my own. I don't know...I know that sounds selfish but that was time I looked forward to having a break.

Frankly, I don't think Gabe is going to care one way or the other. He 'escaped' having to be a father every day. Now he's escaped being one at all. I'm pretty sure he's thrilled. Now he doesn't spend any real time at all with his son, doesn't pay CS, doesn't work, just lays around the house all day being a kept man. MUST BE FREAKIN' NICE!

Can you tell I'm in a snit now? smile


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!