Cake eating WAW in MLC and EA part 2

[CABBR]

CABBR,

What state are you in? Is it a "no-fault" state? To what extent is adultery/infidelity allowed to be used in determining custody arrangements?

I suspect that THIS:

She says if I want to pursue a court resolution on custody she will go for everything she's entitled (love that word) to.

. . . is going to run smack-dab into THIS:

She is beside herself about whether I am still gathering intel. Again wanted to know how I knew the things I did.

. . . in the context of THIS:

go for everything she's entitled (love that word) to.

Not knowing what you have on her is going to be a HUGE source of concern for her, and perhaps rightfully so.

Puppy

Puppy,

It's a no fault state requiring a 6 month separation period that can be in house. A spouse can file prospectively, which is what mine is doing.

Unfortunately, adultery has no bearing on custody, but it can be somewhat determinitive in the distribution of assets. I'm not sure how. L is on vacation.

I'm not so sure my W is worried about the legal ramifications in this regard as much as whether or not she will have to worry about me "stalking" her in perpetuity. She actually voiced this concern at one point.

My W first met OM within one week of the initial bomb, and I have no proof of "adultery" per se - just some kind of relationship. but I have not shown my hand at all with respect to how I know what I know, which does seem to irritate her if nothing else.

Cabbr