I'll be honest. Most of the time I brushed her hair, I was getting ready for my turn. But I almost always gave her a good half hour first. Sometimes she would fall asleep while I was doing it, and I lost my turn. I was ok with that, really.
There were a lot of times when I gave her her 30 minutes with no expectations. Honest. I love my wife, and sometimes after a stressful day for her, I would do that for her. Now, usually I would get turned on, but I was always able to put that aside for her. And truthfully, she would often keep tally and give me my "turn" another time!


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.