I'll be honest. Most of the time I brushed her hair, I was getting ready for my turn. But I almost always gave her a good half hour first. Sometimes she would fall asleep while I was doing it, and I lost my turn. I was ok with that, really. There were a lot of times when I gave her her 30 minutes with no expectations. Honest. I love my wife, and sometimes after a stressful day for her, I would do that for her. Now, usually I would get turned on, but I was always able to put that aside for her. And truthfully, she would often keep tally and give me my "turn" another time!
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.