What to do when H doesn't contact?

[beepee]

Hi Lost:
We've only been separated for 7 weeks. Another week and it will be 2 months, WOW! I can't believe I'm actually that far along. I remember not being able to get through a day let alone nearly 2 months. Well, he hasn't been able to see the changes as he ignoring me just like your H but I'm making changes for me so I feel better about myself. And I disagree with Kimmie Lee very much about making changes just for your WAS.
I think it's really important to realize that a marriage isn't on the rocks because of just one person. Making changes for yourself is important in general, and to me, it SHOULD be for yourself, you don't make changes for anyone else. Yes, you are trying to get your WAS back but if the changes you are making are just for them, I think that's a bit toxic. You live your life for you, not for anyone else, but when you better yourself and make yourself happy FOR YOU, you become much better equipped to handle sitchs like this and will also have a much better relationship whether its with or without the WAS.

You don't want to depend on anyone to make you happy, you can only make yourself happy and share your happiness with your S. Making changes for no one else but you makes you a more confident. Just my 2 cents.

Have you heard anything yet from him? What have you been doing lately? Anything fun? I hope so!