Lost, anyone who tries to tell you that making changes is "for you" and that you shouldn't be doing them to get your WAS back is BS!!

We are actually told that we are to GAL, make "changes", "lay out a nice picnic"...blah....blah....SO THAT OUR WAS's WILL NOTICE!!

I don't blame anyone for being confused about the mixed messages at this forum.

And yes, it is nearly impossible to "Bust a Divorce" when there is no contact from the wayward spouse.