CABBR,

What state are you in? Is it a "no-fault" state? To what extent is adultery/infidelity allowed to be used in determining custody arrangements?

I suspect that THIS:

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She says if I want to pursue a court resolution on custody she will go for everything she's entitled (love that word) to.


. . . is going to run smack-dab into THIS:

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She is beside herself about whether I am still gathering intel. Again wanted to know how I knew the things I did.


. . . in the context of THIS:

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go for everything she's entitled (love that word) to.


Not knowing what you have on her is going to be a HUGE source of concern for her, and perhaps rightfully so.

Puppy