Rays of hope - thaw approaching?

[Serenity13]

I will download these and listen to them - Thank you - PS Who sings them? The first one looks so familiar but I can't place it...

As for your questions...

"Am I doing the right thing avoiding places I know my W is?"
Yes you are doing the right thing because if you ran into her to be honest I think you would fall back into her trap

"Pursuing in any way is just wrong?"
Pursuing is a big no-no - Puppy taught me this actually had to beat it into my head because every part of me screams out to pursue him...I don't call, text, email...Nothing and you will see eventually they will contact you...Mine does about once a week now - Do I wish it were more - Yes however That is the way it is right now

"I have to WAIT?"
Yes my friend - Waiting is all you have however you don't sit at home waiting you GAL...This is all part of your 180's...I forgot you didn't have the book yet but I still have to refer to mine at least once a day if not more...

As for this -
"I honestly want to put another care package together.

There's a set of speakers for her Mac.
There's the cable she needs for her Camera.
I would love to buy her the Michael Bublée CD - the one with Lost and Home on it.

With a note - People never leave people. They leave situations."

Nope - This is pursuing...If she needs the cable or speakers, she can contact you and set up a time to retrieve these things...

Let "J" coach your "W" - Eventually she will learn to think for herself...

She is getting the justification she needs from "J" for what she has done...

She knows in her heart it was wrong however she still has at least one person on her side so she will listen to that one because that one is letting her know what she did was ok...

Same with Hubby - No one agrees with anything he has done these last few months however the OW soothes his ego...

Tells him what he wants to hear so of course for now she is better then me because I refuse to do it...

I am hoping and praying everyday he pulls his head out of his you know what and realizes what a huge mistake he has made...

I have faith in him...I believe in him - That is what keeps me going