Oh, I see
Im not 100% sure, I will have to think about it. I am like you, physical touch and quality time, and it's not hers. Although one thing she always loved was when I would brush her hair. Usually I would sit behind her and brush her hair while we watched tv. Problem is that it almost always led to sex, so I'm afraid if I attempted to brush her hair now, she might think I was looking for something else. I will have to think about the whole thing.
Meantime, I will continue to be upbeat, and look for ways to connect again.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.