Gotta Keep Trying 2

[Dia]

Re: sleeping arrangements - What's been working for me at present is a sort of off-hand approach, lightly indicating what I'd like but letting H know that either way is fine and I won't be upset with him. Welcoming but not pushing. I've also given the message that whatever arrangement is ok as a one-time thing, as in, "I would enjoy having you there (in the same bed) but it's fine either way."