Hey guys,
It's been a few days since I've posted so I'll give a quick update. I went with my wife to get my daughter's bridesmaid dress the other day and the wife kept yammering on about stuff from 10-12 years ago and I finally figured out that nothing is going to change until she can let go of this stuff so I told her that I didn't care to hear this junk anymore, don't bother me anymore about it and if you were interested in working on our relationship then I would be willing to talk. I "left" my cellphone in her car--I have a tracphone now. She found it, went through my texts and found some stuff she didn't like between me and my D, proceeded to call me up and bitch at me about my parenting? I laughed at her, told her she had a lot of nerve acting like she could judge me as a parent. I told her the only option she had to fix the sitch was to come home and work on our relationship and her relationship with her D, otherwise you did this, if you don't like the way I'm parenting then TS. She has offered to bring my phone back to me but has not done so and I really don't care. It's nice that she can't get a hold of me whenever she feels like it and I think it bothers her because she's not in control.

D and I went to the beach last night and rode go-carts, did the batting cages and went out to eat. My D then wanted to ride up the beach for a while. Got back and no messages from the wife on the home phone. It's just as well as she would probably have something to say that I didn't want to hear.

So, I have settled down for the most part. My days at work have been very busy. I work out almost everyday and take my D to the track 3 times a week to ride her bike while I run. I run 4 miles everytime and she bikes 7. She complains about going but when we are done she says she's glad we went. I can see a change in her demeanor lately as I've made her exercise, she's a lot more positive.

Not much else to tell. Puppy's right, he probably could give an update--that's one of the primary reasons I've stopped posting as much. It seems like not a lot has changed. The wife thinks I'm burger king and she's going to get it her way no matter what she's done.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!