Newcomer, want to keep my hope alive!

[iwantittowork]

Yep GIMA, I am keeping that in mind, I understand that she is hurting and struggling.

Interestingly, I think I have started to detach better as well, as I see before that I understood that she was hurting, and you want to try and help and fix it with her, but that just pushes her away.

However, I also wonder, if we can begin to have cordial and almost pleasant interaction, how do you re-spark that attraction she once had, if at all? I try not to think about this often, but it does come into my thought process. Maybe it can't be done, but darned if do want it too!