You are very right FG. I need to be very careful NOT to create the scenarios that I am so afraid of. I know I have the power to do such things. I just get soooo disappointed with him. Yesterday, he went by her daycare to drop off bottles and stuff he had that I asked him to bring back. I considered texting him a "thank you", but chose not to. I still have not spoken to him and I am better for it.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him