Thanks for your uspport everyone

I asked X about M
He said yes..this saturday
the girl is 28 with 11 year old son
sone lives in another state with her parents( i think)
I dont know if anyone is coming to their wedding
I cant imagine his family coming from another state and not seeing the kids
MY kids still dont know
I told XH to tell the kids after the wedding ASAP
they can meet her if xh wants
I will not make them wait till december
I have to let it all go
the kids need to see and know who thie father is
they are smart and secure
they will be OK..I am letting go
life is too short

MY XH appears to be anything BUT happy like a new groom
he is confused, makes constant mistakes at office
he is angry at both me and my brother
every vechicle we have has broke down in our office in 2 mionths
including his car( accident)
a forklift
2 trucks
mostly all b/c of him
he remains in heavy debt
she is M a man in debt of 50,000 plus
MY brother thinks her family may have some money
MY brother thinks XH sees this a s some kind of soultion
I dont know anymore
I am hurt and sad
I am also dating same man.I like him .but this news has affected me and Ive been absorbed with it
I think I am shocked
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow