My divorce is now reaching a difficult situation as the financial split will cause get concern.

My W has offered a very derisory sum, whereas I need a better settlement to be able to re-start my life and make a comfortable life for my children.

This is very difficult as my L has advised I enforce a sale on the property which would allow both of us to get a property that suits both our needs. My children love leaving here, but I also have to think about my future.

I feel very confused.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years