It's hard to leave them alone when he lives here (and I don't want him to move out). We watch tv together several nights a week. We laugh together. He brings me gifts (dessert that we used to share when we were dating). He e-mails me during the day to check on how I'm feeling. He let's me know when he's going to be home late. So leaving him alone to have his relationship with the OW is hard...but I try.
Snowmn,
Honestly I am floored.
He lives at home with you and he also has OW and ......... You are standing for your Marriage and I am so confused. No boundaries? I think this is called cake-eating. He will never have to give up OW because you are so accomodating. He never has to feel the loss of you because you are allowing him to do whatever he wants.
In fact you condone this.
But you put up with it because you are afraid of him leaving.
You say you are trusting God and are quoting Job.
I am still confused...
Because where is your faith? Your trust needs to be in God not in the fear of the Enemy.
I am not attacking you, I am just so curious as to how you can live in this situation.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
