Hi Mindblank!

Yeah, he`s definitely Mr Grump! He`s inconsistent with the kids-mostly grumpy, sometimes all over them feigning interest. Does very little in terms of practicalities of dealing with them.

In fact I noticed yesterday after me and the kids returned home from another fun outing(!) they realised Dad was home. But they didn`t seek him out! He didn`t seek them out either....I`d love that to improve for all their sakes but yes, I know not to interfere with that.

Then on the snooping front I mentioned yesterday, I was watching a comedy with the kids and I got up to get my phone from another room and realised it was gone. I knew straight away of course, H had taken his chance. He came downstairs my phone in hand and I smiled-had to restrain myself from bursting right out laughing-and put my hand out for it.

He hacked into my PC account then last night. Hasn`t done that for a while. Obviously peeved and obviously looking for something. I ALWAYS delete temp internet files, history, cookies on exiting DBforum.Just don`t want him to see me on here. Don`t mind about anything else. Anyway,about all he saw last night was me looking up something about tantric sex.

Hope it has him worried!