Morning, Evening(?) Bravehardt smile

I thought poker is something you prod a fire with wink

Thanks for "holding my hand". No pun intended smile

That goes for all of you as well and will be returned.

Sorry to do this (pointing back to business)....

I honestly need some reassurance.

It feels so callous not to help my W.

I have no idea how to approach her. Although I suspect the answer is "don't".

I have this horrible feeling that not doing any of the above is making things worse by getting my W into a state of anger. Revenge and hitting back, especially under the guidance of the "friend" is hitting my PMA (slightly). I have to be honest and say I feel a little worried.

The "friend" is certainly stirring things up. In that SMS flurry, my W said something like - "and you bought cloths" - that HAD to have come from the "friend". Pity she didn't give my W the full story. The cloths were 2 x t-shirts - total cost R52 (about $8). Jeez - that woman can stir.

So - just wait? (yes). Work on self (yes). Stop worrying? (yes).

Reassurance and any more tips gratefully accepted. Uncomfortable feeling.

Mac