That goes for all of you as well and will be returned.
Sorry to do this (pointing back to business)....
I honestly need some reassurance.
It feels so callous not to help my W.
I have no idea how to approach her. Although I suspect the answer is "don't".
I have this horrible feeling that not doing any of the above is making things worse by getting my W into a state of anger. Revenge and hitting back, especially under the guidance of the "friend" is hitting my PMA (slightly). I have to be honest and say I feel a little worried.
The "friend" is certainly stirring things up. In that SMS flurry, my W said something like - "and you bought cloths" - that HAD to have come from the "friend". Pity she didn't give my W the full story. The cloths were 2 x t-shirts - total cost R52 (about $8). Jeez - that woman can stir.
So - just wait? (yes). Work on self (yes). Stop worrying? (yes).
Reassurance and any more tips gratefully accepted. Uncomfortable feeling.