When I was in school, there was a name for girls who did what your W has done to you. However, as a "wife", I think that makes it even worse to tease a man, knowing perfectly well what she's doing and that she has no intentions of going through with it. Have some self-respect and don't fall for her little teasing sex games when she pulls her clothes off except for her panties. You should have thrown those in her face and told her to get out b/c you didn't want her a$$. The sad thing is....she knows you do! Therefore, she can work you around her little finger and make a fool out of you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
