Glad you are here, but sad that you had to be. This IS the place for what you are going through and Sandi2 has just given you great advice for the here and now. Take it, and get the Divorce Busting and or Divorce Remedy books asap.
And in case she didn't mention this, do NOT TELL YOUR WIFE YOU ARE READING THESE BOOKS and don't tell her to read them either. Don't "accidentally" leave them out or it'll look manipulative. When you get the books and read them, either one -- although I liked the D Remedy book more b/c I already knew I didn't want a divorce and D Busting discusses pro's and con's a lot and I didn't need that so much. (I Did read both, btw).
Anyhow, once you have those books the terms and concepts here will make more sense and you'll find some peace and guidance...
Good luck, it is FAR from hopeless at this point. You will be happy again.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
