He kept going on & on about how he doesn't want to screw me over. He wants to be totally fair, just do mediation. He likes me, I am a good person & a good mom...BUT I'M NOT GOOD enough to keep your marriage vows! It's like what the heck does he want in life?????
He wants to respect each other and basically play all nice for the kids. Yep, he seems to think we will be just like Demi Moore, Ashton Kuther & Bruce Willis. All one big happy divorced family!
My W had that script before your H, but it's the same one, right down to the kids will be fine b/c we are going to be "great friends." Uh, no we're not!
And the bit about him not knowing what his next move is, that probably IS true. B/c he's letting his emotions pull him. He hasn't thought it through.
Early on, someone told me it really doesn't matter what label you put on the problem - MLC or WAS - b/c you deal with them initially in the same way.
I knw you were pi$$ed yesterday, and I don't blame you. Just make sure before you make a decision that will affect you and your kids, that you are convinced it is the right thing, not b/c your'e mad. Everyone here is going to support you no matter what. But You have to love with YOU.
Hang in there, and I am praying for you and your kids.
