Thanx, dia.
I get what your saying. I will feel her out, and choose the right time. I won't be pushy or force myself on her, I will gently start to initiate and see how it gies from there. I will also keep in mind that she may not be into it, and if I'm not 100% expecting it, the let down might not be as bad.
What a difference from years ago when all I had to do was raise an eyebrow, and 5 minutes later we going at it like rabbits!


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.