Well, W and D8 came home right after I wrote this above..
Man, W started talking about d8's art class they were at, and again, it was the old her.
Then, after I put d8 to bed, and started watching tv, out comes the cold/distant her, asking if I am watching tv downstairs. I thought that was obvious, but I say, yes, am I bothering you with it? She says no, she will just go upstairs and watch tv.
Ok, whatever, since the other tv is in our bedroom, and she is not sleeping in it, I elect to grab a beer and head upstairs to watch tv, and wish her a good night. (Note, I actually do wish her a good night, it's not sarcastic or anything...)
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."