One of the very first things my H told me about his R with OW was that they fought "like cats and dogs". I remember asking perhaps that's what he enjoyed? Maybe he was bored with me? (we did not fight like that) No, he says, it's not pretty.

Curious.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10