Triggered something that's been rolling around in my head since x said it.
I did all the 180 things, addressed all the things he used to justify his "falling out of love."
He said the 180, so quickly, was what made him solidify his decision to leave - it hurt him to the core to see how I was able to make changes, and he thought it was all for show and fake, or I was terrible for being able to "do the right thing," and just not doing it all along, that it was all "common sense" things he wanted/needed.
So, I guess it can bite you in the a$$.
I kept the good changes, and stopped twisting myself into knots trying to keep up with superficial ones. So, I still am ahead of the game. Maybe that puts him in the league of batchhit...? Doesn't matter; with each day that passes, I see more of the disparities that were between us all along. You need two people to get past those.
