Hey Kenn, Nice to see you popping around now & then. Sounds like things are ok with your W & your life. Good to hear.
Hey Julia, Well when we were working on D papers, I prodded him to get it done, yet he always chose the day & I always agreed. Now it's kinda half in half - but mostly when he suggests. His b'day dinner & 4th of July, I suggested - he agreed & showed up. The other Sundays have been his choosing & me agreeing. This last Sunday I left him a message asking him to go to an airplane show here. No response, so I went by myself. He emailed me on Monday, saying sorry & what he had done. Strange he cut down a tree at BMF, mom's house to make some money. My XH hates heights. Very odd, that he said it was taller than the tree he cut down (a few years back) at OUR house. Since he has some extra cash he asked me if I still wanted to go to the Ren Fair with him. I said yes. We will see if we actually go.
So mostly, I leave it to him & ask occasionally.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)