We will all respect your decision, whatever you choose, we just all care, we have all been there, we have all done things out of anger and we just want you to be sure.
In a way that is sort of the beauty of all of this. No we didn't ask for it, but we all do have the CHOICE as to our own actions. More than once, I said, I'm done. But as I calmed down, I knew I wasn't. If you read some of the saved marriage stories, you will see, almost all of them heard the D word at one point or another. As well as a whole bunch of other stuff, they too felt like you do, and then they really considered their actions. Yellowrose is one of my favorite examples. Her H gave her a very hard time in a very short amount of time. And now she is very happy. Brandnewday also travelled a road that would have made most people crumble.
Please don't call game over unless you are really sure.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
