MD....even if she's not pregnant today, she could be soon....that's kind of how it works and yes, doodles, she's trying to get pregnant....she has a child, whatever happens between she and H is irrelevant....she gets to say. Our federal government will not send her without her child.....her child is a US citizen if born here....she is using him and probably for this.
MD, have you thought about shutting him out completely and moving on?