Had a chance to talk w/Jody today about things as I have a few sessions left that I'd pre-paid for a long time ago.
Anyway, as always, she's great to talk w/and she told me that I'm sounding much stronger than I have in the past and that it seems as if I'm doing very well.
On the GF front, we both agree that the fact I'm with a woman who needs me to take things slow is a very good thing b/c it is helping me to reaffirm my own sense of self and be able to combat those old, ingrained insecurities of my past.
She feels like I'm doing a good job at giving GF space and the fact she didn't like me leaving w/out kissing her, holding her and talking w/her a bit before I left was a very, very positive sign.
So, as usual, she was a very excellent part of my day and if you need any coaching at all, Jody is WELL WORTH the investment. I can't think of an individual who has helped me more than she has over the past 18 months in terms of relationships.
As for today, I am going to break my "no 1st contact" rule w/GF to send her a little text about her upcoming job interview. It will be something short and sweet along the lines of "I know you'll impress the heck out of them today and now all you'll have to do is see if they'll impress you."
Keep it simple, stupid. The KISS method is wonderful, especially for us men.
