Antlers-

Funny, I was posting on your thread while you were posting on mine!

That's just it, why does she want to mess with me? If she's done with our M and our R, and if she's in love with OM, why would she care? I guess maybe she does care.

I wasn't planning on asking her ahead of time. We are meeting out Friday night to discuss our separation agreement. My thought was to spring something on her then. Nothing big, just enthusiastically mention a band playing nearby and that I'd like to go see them and invite her to join me. Going to see bands was a favorite thing we used to do. We've had so much fun together lately, I think she'll be into it. Remember, OM is very far away. That's my advantage.