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[wolverine1997]

I agree. I just don't know what to do. I tried and tried to get her to go to counseling but she refuses. She says that she doesn't need help and that I can go if I want. We went on two seperate occasions but in each instance she only went for two visits and then quit.

I think that I will just have to let this run its course. I don't think that she will get any help until she hits rock bottom. I think that at some point she will file for divorce or is going to try to move out and get her own place. At that point in time I suspect that she will see how hard it is for her to make it on her own and by herself. She is not very good at paying bills and budgeting. Her standard of living will take a large hit because she won't be able to maintain it on her salary.

If she files for divorce I hope that I would get custody of the kids. I would strongly question her mental status and show that she has been diagnosed with depression but would never treat it. At that point I think that she would strongly question her decisions and choices. But I'm hoping that it doesn't get to that.