Another Waw

[Refuse to quit]

Well after 2 lame calls from the W yesterday (spoke to her on one let the other go to voicemail), a good visit with her when she dropped the kids off and the cold shoulder when she picked them up, I am not sure what to think. I talked to my MC yesterday and he said he feels like I should move on. I told him I am not going to until this is over (either she decides she wants to work on this or she pushes the D all the way). He respected my decision but doesn't see how I can put a time date on it. I told him how can he put a date of yesterday on it. I feel like if things go all the way I can look back and definitely say that I gave it everything I had and if that wasn't enough, time to move on. The W is definitely in a new phase of things. She was acting strange yesterday when dropping the kids off. After hanging out with us for about 45 minutes she pops up and says "I have to go." Like the bat signal just went off or something. Not sure where she is getting this strange attitude from of being close and then being cold. Seems like it would take a lot of energy to keep up. I know it is her turn to make some changes and I will just keep mine going. I continue to have hope that things can work out but feel like the longer they go the more I see her slip away and transform into someone I don't even know. Get to talk to my DB coach this Fri. Looking forward to it. Hopefully he can make some sense of all of this. I know she has not detached from me yet. I can tell by the way she is around me. Also by her calling me out of the blue angry with me when I haven't done a thing. Have not even seen or spoken to her in a couple of days. It would be harder I think if I knew she was gone. I don't think she is. Thanks for you help all!
RTQ