Slowly getting better?? - WAW advice still needed.

[pearlharbr]

I agree with MB, I think it's time for a big shake up in something. Yes you've had good results but it seems like things have been pretty much status quo for quite some time now. Perhaps closing the store will be enough. If not, start thinking about it. For example, if you do end up divorced, will you continue to be friends with her at the same level you are now? Maybe she needs to see what D will really look like.

But her conclusion from that is that I am apparently happier WITHOUT her than WITH her (this was also mentioned in her Feb email and again now). How do I get this out of her head!??

I don't know if there's anything you can do about this. She needs to go to IC and work out her own issues. She is the only person who can raise her self esteem.