Read up on your sitch. Couple things, her getting arrested may bring them closer short term, when my h ow got evicted it got them closer, so close that they lived together. But what, it didn't last. It nevr was going to and everyone knew it. Time is a great healer... time really does more than we ever can. But patience is sooooo hard.
Btw, just something I was going to tell you, I remember my sister telling me that when a woman is pregnant she really doesn't get arrested and sent to central booking, most times just a desk appearance ticket to appear in court. I'm not sure how they processed your ow but just a thought for you to consider.
Stay strong. I know how you feel. i'm so nervous in my sitch as well. I see my H's games but I just want to handle things with my head and not my heart right now but the heart is so strong of a muscle. I need to keep posting b/c I need all the advice I can get right now.
I will send you an email address for us to contact each other.