I was puzzled to however he explained it to me this way...
Good = Bad - Because then basically everything is working the way she wants it...
Bad = Good - She knows it isn't the way she wanted or it isn't working the way it was planned in her mind...
I agree with you I would love to say these same things to hubby however again it is something they have to work out on their own...You can be there but not as a doormat for her to wipe her feet on - You are better then that my friend
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~