I was puzzled to however he explained it to me this way...

Good = Bad - Because then basically everything is working the way she wants it...

Bad = Good - She knows it isn't the way she wanted or it isn't working the way it was planned in her mind...

I agree with you I would love to say these same things to hubby however again it is something they have to work out on their own...You can be there but not as a doormat for her to wipe her feet on - You are better then that my friend smile


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~