W came to pick up kids this morning. She looked incredible. Why does she do this? I'm struggling to stay detached. We're going to meet Friday night to go over our separation plan. Another chance for us to be alone together. At this point I don't know if that's good or bad!
I'll be honest here. I'm flirting with the idea of pulling a surprise on her and making a plan for us to go do something fun instead of, or in addition to, the work we need to do Friday night. Is that a dumb idea? On the one hand, it's not exactly a detached, dropped rope kind of thing to do. On the other hand, it's a big 180 for me, as pulling surprises like that is exactly the kind of thing she so wanted me to do in our M, but I rarely did :-(
