Mules, Another way to start feeling a little compassion for the STBX is to make a list of what you still like about her and what you are grateful for. Keeps the thoughts on the positive beat.
Cheers
Therein lies my problem with her. Right now I don't like anything about her. I'm serious...nothing. She has changed so much. If I met her today, there would be no chance that I would approach her. Not even close. I'm grateful for my family...you know, the one she chose to leave. Everything about her is a 180 of the person I fell in love with. That's what made detachment so easy for me after a point.
So I don't know where to start. Back to the comfortable shoes.
Strength and Honor.
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
