My next comment was going to be seek male advice on how to deal with it!
male or female it makes no difference...
there is no plan, there is no magic bullet...
the chances of success with a WAS are about the same as winning the lottery...
your best bet...keep your mouth closed, your eyes open, look freakin hot, be mysterious...and stop attempting to make them hear what a mistake they are making and show them instead..
if you are thinking of doing or saying something then the best thing you can do is "get a life" because if you do, "do or say something" and they are not ready to "hear" you then that will cause a backslide..and backslide after backslide leads to an avalanche called divorce..
