I'm really bummed about this. I thought i'd see some change in her attitude after a month, one way or the other, but nothing. I guess i have to start looking after myself as if i were single and looking to attract another woman. At my age now i should be looking after myself anyway.
She's continuing to act like there's someone else. Yes, I think if you did the above, it would probably "work," but you won't have solved the core marital issues.
