Brief update. Not much has changed. W is happier as she's looking after her self and i've honored the 'giving her space' request.

Things are at a standstill. The relationship is amicable but it is quite weird that there is no physical or sexual relationship to speak of. I don't like sleeping next to my 'best friend'.

I am not convinced she is chasing or seeing anyone but i'm not stupid and see that she could easily fall for OM in an affair if the opportunity arose. Would she take the opportunity? Who knows. I would like to think not but who am i kidding. I'm not sure she has that type of respect for us anymore.

I'm really bummed about this. I thought i'd see some change in her attitude after a month, one way or the other, but nothing. I guess i have to start looking after myself as if i were single and looking to attract another woman. At my age now i should be looking after myself anyway.

So ya bummed. Still alive, status quo.