GIMA, I understand your confusion. Just stay calm, PMA'n and steady. Plan the trip together, partner up on it and plan something different. Ask her," how can I help?" No R talk, be ready for some pushback, have responses ready in case she asks about your changes and keep filling her love buckets.
Lead on.

Strength and Honor

Coach


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.